Making a list of instances run by women. If that's you, @ me with it. So far I know:
๐ http://kitty.town ๐ http://occult.camp๐ http://elekk.xyz๐ http://mastodon.starrevolution.org๐ http://glitch.social๐ http://octodon.social
@GinnyMcQueen sfbubble.net, I believe.